Let Us Not Throw Out the Baby With the Bathwater: Applying the Principle of Universalism Without Uniformity to Autonomy-Supportive and Controlling Parenting

Bart Soenens; Maarten Vansteenkiste; Stijn Van Petegem

doi:10.1111/cdep.12103

journal article Feb 18, 2015

Let Us Not Throw Out the Baby With the Bathwater: Applying the Principle of Universalism Without Uniformity to Autonomy-Supportive and Controlling Parenting

Bart Soenens

Maarten Vansteenkiste

Stijn Van Petegem

Child Development Perspectives Vol. 9 No. 1 pp. 44-49 · Oxford University Press (OUP)

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Abstract

Abstract
Socialization scholars differ in how they view parenting processes: On one hand, scholars working from the perspective of the Self-Determination Theory (SDT) underscore the universally growth-promoting role of parenting that is perceived to support autonomy and the universal costs associated with parenting that is perceived as controlling. On the other hand, scholars adopting a more relativistic perspective focus on moderating factors (e.g., personality, culture) that may reduce or even cancel out the benefits of parents' support of autonomy and the costs of controlling parenting. In this article, we apply the principle of universalism without uniformity to this literature and review evidence for this principle. Specifically, we maintain that room for individual differences exists within SDT in children's appraisal of potentially autonomy-supportive and controlling parenting practices, and in the way they cope with controlling parenting. This perspective emphasizes children's active contribution in shaping the socialization process.

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Published: Feb 18, 2015
Vol/Issue: 9(1)
Pages: 44-49
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Bart Soenens

Ghent University

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Maarten Vansteenkiste

Ghent University

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Stijn Van Petegem

Ghent University

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Bart Soenens, Maarten Vansteenkiste, Stijn Van Petegem (2015). Let Us Not Throw Out the Baby With the Bathwater: Applying the Principle of Universalism Without Uniformity to Autonomy-Supportive and Controlling Parenting. Child Development Perspectives, 9(1), 44-49. https://doi.org/10.1111/cdep.12103

Let Us Not Throw Out the Baby With the Bathwater: Applying the Principle of Universalism Without Uniformity to Autonomy-Supportive and Controlling Parenting

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